A letter to my stockings.

Dear L'eggs Sheer Energy Nude stockings in a size B,

I would appreciate it if you would not spontaneously get a run or snag in you like so many of your sisters and brothers before you. You see, I have to go out to dinner tonight and it is vital that I make a good impression and feel confident. This is difficult to do when I am all to well aware that a run in my stocking is slowly making it's way up (or down!) my leg. I promise that if you can hang in there and do this for me I will always be sure to put you in the "delicates" bag and on the proper cycle in the washing machine.

With hopes for a long and mutually beneficial relationship,
Jenny

It's really been a year??

I got the message from one of my best friend's from high school. I had been on CNN all morning reading and watching the events of the Virginia Tech Massacre unfold. I remember thinking, "Thank God it's not here." Well, what I didn't know and what Cait messaged me shortly therafter was that it was about to hit home in a big way.

My childhood friend Dan O'Neill was killed in the massacre when he was shot in a classroom by the gunman. I didn't quite believe her when she told me, because the names of the victims were not being released yet. I kept checking CNN throughout the day, watching and waiting. It wasn't until I finally saw it in black and white on my computer screen that it became a reality.

As soon as I could, I went home. I grew up in a town in Rhode Island where everyone pretty much knows everyone. I was a "Saylesville" kid(our elementary school)...and so was Dan. We attended school together from Kindergarten until we graduated, and we were often in the same classes. He lived up the street from me our whole lives and he used to skateboard with my brother. He was a part of my childhood.

People came from all over the country, flying in to attend Dan's funeral, the memorials, and pay their respects. Facebook memorials popped up. The website where he had his songs posted (www.residenthippy.com) was flooded with people wanting to hear his beautiful music. Condolences poured in from around the world, and candlelight vigils were aplenty.

Media curiousity was high. Tributes to the victims were on all of the TV channels. In fact, his closest friends threw a memorial concert, and TV crews showed up to broadcast the footage. At his funeral, many people carried black umbrellas to shield themselves from the cameras.

We all came together that week...and we were there for each other. We were united in our childhoods, our memories, friendships, our shared experiences. I can't really describe the sense of community, but it was there. And it gave me hope...that even in the midst of something so unspeakably heinous, there was human compassion.

I can't believe it's really been a year. And I cannot imagine that the grief felt by his passing has subsided. Wherever Dan is now, I hope he is at peace. I know that he is deeply missed.

Unless you have a vision problem...

Then there really is only ONE of me. One of me to go around, people. So to everyone wanting a piece of me...BACK THE HELL OFF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Isn't that YOUR job?

IT guy: Helpdesk, Bob speaking. How can I help you?
Me: My printer isn't working. I just replaced the cartridge, but the menu is still distorted, the orange light is on, and it won't print.
IT guy: Well, what seems to be the problem?
Me: I do not know. It won't print. I have no idea why.
IT guy: Well, the menu is distorted? Like, smudgy?
Me: The font is different. It looks like some sort of default font. I don't know. I know nothing.

Jesus Christ! Isn't it THEIR job to figure out what's wrong? All I know is that my goddamn printer won't print!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

*deep cleansing breath*

This is like that time I spent twenty five minutes on the phone with that IT guy who asked me at the end of the conversation if I was a student. Um, no. Oy vey!!!

I need to branch out.

All I seem to cook lately is Italian. Healthy Italian, and admittedly kick ass Italian(Yeah, I AM Italian), but still.

And this needs to be said. If I want to say that I used to be fat, then let me do so. You know it's true, I know it's true, and that's pretty much the long and short of it. Telling me I wasn't fat makes me trust NOTHING you say. Yes, I am no longer fat, but I REFUSE to deny my past. It's what brought me to where I am, and I am damn proud of how far i've come.

Warning to anyone selling BB or pellet guns.

If a 49 year old blonde deaf woman tries to purchase a b.b. gun from you, DO NOT SELL IT TO HER. This is my mother. She wants to shoot the squirrels that are eating from her seven (yes, 7!) bird feeders situated throughout her backyard. Let me give you a little background.

She is an avid birdwatcher and when I visit, she continually tiptoes in to the room I am in and gestures for me to "come quickly" and look at a "new bird." Apparently, birds have super hearing and the sound of her footsteps on the carpet will send them flying in terror. And she takes special trips to the store to refill her feeders. I have no clue why she loves birds so much, but I constantly have to stop myself from twirling my finger in the air and going, "Whoop-de-freakin-do."

I mean, she DID watch all those times I went, "Mom! Look at me! I can swim the butterfly stroke!" Yeah, I couldn't.

Now, the banes of her existence at the moment are these "damn squirrels" that have recently begun their reign of terror over the feeders, depleting the resources meant for the birds. She's tried everything- running out of the house and clapping her hands at them (maybe they think she's applauding?), profanity laced yelling, sic'ing the dog on them (I wouldn't be scared of Samantha, either), etc. She's a modern day Bill Murray a la "Caddyshack." These squirrels are her gopher.

So, last weekend she says to me, "I think I need a b.b. gun. I'm going to shoot to kill."

How lovely. This from the woman who put her treadmill in a room with such a low ceiling she can't even run without smacking her head on it. Yeah, that says it all. And also, she has a history of violence with squirrels. I secretly think that they're out to get her. We once had a squirrel come into our house via the chimney. She swatted him out with a tennis racket.

I mean, I know you guys are out to get money, but when the squirrel community turns on you for arming this woman, don't come crying to me. You've been warned.

What's a girl to do?

So, don't tell my aunt, but I LOVE to run at night. I usually go out running at around 9:00 or so and run miles. I live in the city, as I am sure you know, and I stick to well-lit places and the safer areas. However, I have come to realize that in this day and age, it's probably a good idea to have some measure of protection. I'll probably accidentally Mace myself, and i'm not keen on getting a license and training, so that's out.

Meet the stun gun.

http://gizmodo.com/377185/lipstick-stun-gun-comes-in-one-shade-frazzled-nads

This little puppy has it all- style, efficiency, and 350,000 volts of electricity.

Yes, I'll be ordering this. Oh, look! It comes in green.